Sometimes,
this show begins with a simple word. Then it builds and builds into a
long story with many different expressions. Today, we start with the
word “circle.” Let’s see where this circle leads us.
A circle is simple and elegant. Mathematicians describe it as 360
degrees traveling endlessly around and around.
The expression circle of life comes from this idea. Living creatures are
constantly being born and dying, over and over, like a circle.
Many of the circle expressions we will learn today mean just that – to
go around and around while thinking, speaking or doing just about
anything.
Let’s continue with the phrase going around in circles. This expression
means to spend a lot of time and effort trying to get something done,
without making any progress. If some problem in your life has you going
around in circles, it’s best to stop thinking about it for a while and
clear your mind.
Now, to run around in circles or to run in circles is not a type of
exercise. If you are running in circles you are wasting time doing an
activity that has no purpose or end. For example, I was planning to
clean and organize my apartment over the weekend. It seemed like a
simple task. But for hours, I just kept running around in circles. So, I
decided to stop and try again next weekend.
However, running circles around someone means something quite different.
If you run circles around someone, you do something much better than
another person or group of people. For example, “She runs circles around
all the other kids in her math class.”
And running circles around someone is completely different than running
in the same circles with them. The word “circle” can also mean a group
of people sharing a common goal or interest. So, to run in the same
circles means that you go to similar places and know similar people as
someone else. You can simply say, “We have been running in the same
circles for years.”
You can also define these circles in a more detailed way. For example,
you can call your family members your family circle. This includes your
immediate family -- your mom, dad, brothers and sisters -- and also your
extended family -- your grandparents, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and
cousins.
The people in your social circle are the friends with whom you socialize
– you know, hang out and do fun things.
If you hang out with people for a special reason, they can be in a
special circle. Let’s say two mystery writers know each other from going
to the same events for many years, you could say they run in the same
literary circle.
Those in your inner circle are the most trusted people in your life.
They mean more than your social circle. They may include your family
members, friends and professional colleagues – those who you trust most.
Now, talking in circles does not mean you are talking with people in
your circles. To talk in circles is to talk a lot but not make much
sense. When you talk in circles you may be trying to avoiding a topic;
so, you talk around it.
When we circle back, we revisit something we have already done or
discussed. For example, let’s say you bring up an issue at a work
meeting but there isn’t enough time to discuss it. Your boss may say
that the group will circle back to your issue at another time.
And to come full circle is an expression that we use to describe
something such as an idea, experience or career that has changed a lot
-- only to find itself back to where it started. Imagine a dot that
starts at one point on the outer part of a circle and travels all the
way around, ending exactly where it started.
That’s what circles do – they go around and around in 360 degrees.
Now, let’s hear some of these circle expressions used in a short story.
Samantha loves to go hiking. She loves being outdoors, exploring nature
and seeing new parts of the country. Her goal is to hike every major
trail in the eastern part of the United States -- from Maine to New York
to the Carolinas and the Florida Keys.
She may have a goal, but she doesn’t take hiking that seriously. To her,
it’s just fun! So, she joins a hiking group in the city where she lives.
In her new hiking circle, there’s one guy, Alex, who takes hiking very
seriously. He even gets competitive, if such a thing is possible with
hiking.
For Alex, a hiking trail is something to defeat and then brag about
later. He likes to say he runs circles around all the other hikers in
the group.
Samantha thinks this kind of talk is really silly and may represent a
deeper personal problem. She wonders if she should even run in the same
circle with Alex. But, she thinks, he does know some pretty great trails.
So, she keeps him in her in hiking circle but out of her other social
circles and nowhere near her inner circle.
On a beautiful day in May, Samantha’s hiking circle meets to decide
which trail to hike for their first summer trip.
Samantha speaks up first. She suggests a mountain trail in West
Virginia. It is one she knows very well. In fact, everyone in her family
circle knows it really well. As a child her family spent summer
vacations in the area.
The others think it’s a great idea – well, everyone except Alex.
For 15 minutes, he talks in circles. He gives reasons that do not make
any sense about why they should not hike this trail. He adds that the
trail is much too easy for him. This leads the others to wonder if the
trail is worthwhile. So, they go around in circles for hours, talking
about many trails but deciding on none.
Many pots of coffee later, the group circles back to Samantha’s first
suggestion. They decide to hike the trail in West Virginia after all.
Samantha rolls her eyes but she is happy the selection process has come
full circle.
When the time comes, the group hikes the trail and everyone has a
wonderful time -- well, again, everyone except Alex. He hiked the trail
far ahead of everyone else, took a wrong turn and got lost. After a two-hour
search-and-rescue effort, the park police found him shivering under a
lot of leaves and sticks in the dark, cold night.
Alex recovered. He’s fine. But he’s no longer a part of Samantha’s
hiking circle … or anyone’s hiking circle. The last the group heard, he
quit hiking and joined a competitive yoga group.
That is one circle, Samantha thought, that I want nothing to do with.
And that is some of our expressions using this simple shape that goes
around in 360 degrees – the circle. We began our show with a simple
definition of a circle. |