Today, we
talk about two activities that many people find really fun and one that
makes them happy -- singing and dancing!
So, why is the expression “same old song and dance” not at all related
to fun or happiness? That is the question we will answer today.
The “same old song and dance” may sound like a great performance,
something that you want to see over and over again. But it is not. Here,
the “song and dance” is a repeated, tired, even predictable reaction to
something. It is something we do or say over and over again for
different reasons.
One online reference guide claims that Americans first began using this
expression in the late 1800s.
Around that time, vaudeville was a popular form of show business in the
United States. In a vaudeville show, performers sang, danced and acted
in short, funny skits. Some shows even had animal acts.
Often, a vaudeville show would open with a song and some dancing. But it
often was the same song and dance night after night.
And that is where we get the expression “same
old song and dance.” Americans use this term in different situations and
in each one, there is a slight change in meaning.
Here are some ways we use this expression.
Sometimes “the same old song and dance” can be an overused, weak excuse.
It is something we say to others to explain bad behavior. But people
have heard it so often that they do not believe it, nor do they care.
Listen for this expression in the following example involving two people
in a work-place environment.
Janet: Hey, Matt. Where are you going in such
a hurry?
Matt: Hi, Janet. I have to drop off forms to a client before the close
of business today.
Janet: Why are you taking them yourself? I thought you asked James to
take care of things like that.
Matt: I did. But he had to take his dog to the animal hospital.
Janet: Didn’t he give you the same song and dance last week?
Matt: No, last week when he missed work because he had a doctor’s
appointment … again.
Janet: He has a different excuse every week!
Now, sometimes the “same old song and dance” is used to mean someone is
trying to trick you. Or, at least, they are only telling you part of the
whole story.
For example, at every meeting, a business owner gives her employees the
same old song and dance about the company's great plans for the future.
But then … nothing happens.
Sometimes the same old song and dance does not mean an excuse or a trick.
Sometimes it is just a very long and complex story. Used this way, the
speaker often wants to justify something. They want to convince the
listener that their idea is a good one. But in this case, the listener
does not really want or need to hear it.
Listen now to how the term “song and dance” is used to mean a very long,
complex explanation.
A: How was the theater last night?
B: It was wonderful, and the performance was great. But it just took way
too long for the show to start.
A: Why is that?
B: Well, before the show, the theater owner made a very long speech
about the importance of theater. He’s raising money for a theater
program for at-risk youth.
A: Well, that's not a bad thing, right?
B: Not at all. It’s a great program! But we didn’t need to hear his
whole song and dance. Most of us had already given money! In fact, he
ended his hour-long song and dance by thanking everyone for our generous
donations.
A: An hour? That’s a really long song and dance.
At other times, “the same old song and dance” can mean a complex system
which involves many steps, like a ritual or ceremony.
For example, let's say your friend works for a terrible boss. Every time
your friend wants to start a new project, he is required to explain the
same steps over and over again.
Let’s hear how to use this expression.
A: Want to go out for a bite to eat?
B: Sorry. I don’t have time today. I have to prepare my project proposal.
A: What does that involve?
B: I have to write a report listing my goals. I have to prepare a cost
analysis presentation on why it is a worthwhile project. Then I have to
prove that no one else in the company is doing. THEN I have to get
statements from co-workers who think it’s a good idea.
A: Oh, no. That’s sounds awful.
B: And every time I present an idea to the boss, it’s the same old song
and dance. I’m sick of it! |